When Your Spouse Stops Being Your Project
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Many marriages stall at the same point: each spouse convinced the breakthrough will come only when the other finally changes. What if the real breakthrough begins somewhere else?
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A La Carte (March 25)
Embracing slow sanctification / Men are lost / Your attention isn’t failing, your environment is / Notes on justice / Ships passing in the night / It is Christ who saves, not Christians / and more.
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A La Carte (March 24)
Check your guns at the door / Counseling the victim identity / Christian sexual ethics / Leaders are readers / Missionary meditations from the Middle East / Personal callings / and more.
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Here We Stand! A Call from Confessing Evangelicals for a Modern Reformation
Thirty years ago, evangelical leaders gathered in Cambridge, MA, to take a stand for truth. That moment led to the Cambridge Declaration—and sparked a call for a modern Reformation. Now, Here We Stand! returns in a newly revised edition from Alliance Publishing with new insights from leading voices like Carl Trueman, Sean Michael Lucas, and…
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The Great Need of Reformed Churches Is Not Great Preachers
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A La Carte (March 23)
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Works & Wonders (March 22)
Trying something new for Sunday: A brief devotional with stories, songs, articles, photographs, and more. All about rejoicing in the works and wonders of God.
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Weekend A La Carte (March 21)
Sports gambling / The challenges of new technology / New music / The Abuja affirmation / Bird names / Baptism / Think pieces and longform writing / and more.
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One Woman’s Journey Through Gender Confusion, Reassignment Surgery, and Detransitioning
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A La Carte (March 20)
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A La Carte (March 19)
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Wise and Helpful Ways for Christians To Experiment With AI
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A La Carte (March 18)
An ancient answer to a present problem / Here we are now (entertain us) / Marriage really matters / The other book that shaped America / Automatically anticipating God’s help / The population bomb / Book and Kindle deals.
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A La Carte (March 17)
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A La Carte (March 16)
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Weekend A La Carte (March 14)
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Sex, Self-Forgetfulness, and the Joy of Serving Your Spouse
I often think there is a kind of paradoxical quality to sex within marriage. It’s paradoxical in that few things have greater ability to bring blessing (through its right use) or to bring cursing (through its misuse). Not only that, but few things bring greater joy to a marriage, and also, in so many cases,…
